My Story 
Over 8 years ago, I remember sitting in my living room apartment. I was all snuggled up in the recliner, watching my Thursday night shows with Christmas lights sparkling all around me. I could feel the cold December air coming through the sliding balcony door as I hear the apartment door unlock. In walks my boyfriend at the time. He leans over the couch across from me and begins to explain that our relationship has come to an end and he will be moving out in the next week or so. My body froze, I could feel a lump building in my throat and anger rising inside me yet, I was speechless. I had never felt so blindsided in my life. I had never felt so small, so alone. While this was one of the toughest times of my life, it was also a monumental moment for me. 

This situation forced me to start looking within. I had to dig deep and figure out who I wanted to be without anyone else around me clouding my judgement. The truth of that relationship was, deep down I wasn't happy and I knew it wasn't going in the direction I'd hoped for. Yet, I didn't have enough strength or confidence in myself to end it. I got through this time by strengthening my friendships, making healthier choices, investing in self care and most of all- lots and lots of self pleasure! I got clear on who I wanted to be and started treating myself the way I deserved. By gaining this confidence in myself, I paved the way for the love of my life to find his way to me. For the past 8 years, I've continued to work on my self confidence, and it has shown up not only in my marriage but also my career, friendships, decision making, and so much more. I am proof that when you start embracing your sexual confidence it begins showing up in other areas of you life. When you decide to invest in Sexual Confidence Academy, you will have access to all the things that have helped me get to where I am now.